Compensation/damages
Hello,
In summary, a few months ago my daughter and I noticed that a significant amount of money was disappearing from our apartment. We installed a spy camera with a motion sensor and a month later, my husband at the time was caught. He was the only person who knew we were not at home.
The thing is, we had only been married for 1.5 years and due to our work conditions, we had to live in different locations. My ex-husband was always welcome at our place, but only when one of us was home, meaning he didn't have a key to our apartment. (After the crime, I had a conversation with him where he admitted he didn't have a key to my apartment. I recorded this conversation as well).
This can only mean that my ex-husband secretly made a spare key to my apartment, for example when we were both on vacation.
The video was taken in my daughter's room, where the money was also missing. The footage clearly shows him rummaging through my daughter's cabinets and personal belongings. The video also captures him using our home phone to input something or possibly check incoming calls.
It's difficult to say how often he "visited" us in our absence. In any case, he had no idea about the money, and he must have had a lot of time to find it. It can only mean he was constantly in our apartment.
I have since reported my ex-husband. Despite the evidence, I was told it is unlikely I will get the money back, as the video doesn't show him taking the money.
My questions are, what are my chances of getting something out of this situation? Even if he wasn't the one who took the money, he shouldn't have secretly made a key to the apartment or rummaged through our belongings, especially those of my daughter, who has only been his stepdaughter since 2009.
When I confronted my ex-husband about the money, he felt relatively safe, as he didn't believe I would have the courage to report him. Filing a report meant divorce for me. According to the Foreigners Office, we were supposed to have been married for 2 years, and as such, it would mean deportation from Germany for us. So he took advantage of our situation and trust. As a result, it has cost me a lot of nerves, time, and money to report him, hire lawyers for our stay in Germany. I even had to see a doctor because of sleep and neurological disorders.
If the stolen money cannot be recovered, can I expect compensation for pain and suffering? Or for example, reimbursement for the replaced lock or costs for the spy camera?
What consequences does he face in general? Fines/prison?
Best regards, Seeker of advice