How can I support my family members who are diagnosed with cancer?
December 12, 2023 | 40,00 EUR | answered by Gerd Herrmann
Dear team of the online consultation,
My name is Christiane Schlüter and I am currently facing a very difficult situation. My mother was diagnosed with cancer some time ago and I feel helpless and overwhelmed. I would like to know how I can best support my relatives who are fighting this disease.
My mother is a strong woman, but I can see how much she is suffering from the diagnosis. She is often tired and weak, struggling with side effects of the treatment, and often feeling down. I would like to support her and encourage her, but I don't know the best way to do that.
In addition to my mother, I am also worried about my father, who is also very concerned about my mother. I see how the disease is affecting our family and I would like to somehow contribute to keeping us together as a family and staying strong.
I am already trying my best to be there for my parents, help them with household chores, support them, and be there for them when they need conversations or comfort. But I wonder if there is more that I can do to support them and help them through this difficult time.
Therefore, I ask you, dear team of the online consultation, what specific measures can I take to best support my relatives who are suffering from cancer? Are there any special offers or support options that I can use to relieve and strengthen my family during this difficult phase? I thank you in advance for your help and support.
Sincerely,
Christiane Schlüter
Dear Christiane Schlüter,
I can absolutely understand how difficult it must be for you to witness your mother's battle against cancer and how much it burdens the entire family. It is admirable how much you are already taking care of your parents and trying to support them. In this difficult situation, it is important that you also think of yourself and pay attention to your own needs. Only when you are strong yourself, can you support your family as best as possible.
To support your loved ones best, it is important that you continue to be there for them and show them your love and support. It is good that you are already helping with household chores and being there for them when they need conversations or comfort. Furthermore, it is helpful to simply listen and be there for them when they want to talk about how they are feeling. It is important that they feel understood and not alone.
In addition to your emotional support, there are also practical measures you can take to relieve your family. For example, you could find out if there are support services for cancer patients and their families in your region. Hospitals or non-profit organizations often offer counseling centers, support groups, or psychological support that can help you during this difficult time.
It can also be helpful to create a treatment plan together with your parents to ensure they receive the best possible medical care. Learn about the different therapy options and side effects so that you can better support your parents.
Family unity is particularly important in difficult times like this. Try to organize regular family meetings or conversations to support each other and exchange ideas. It can also be helpful to engage in positive activities together to take a break from the illness and experience enjoyable moments together.
Please remember that it is okay to ask for help if you feel overwhelmed. Talk to friends, other relatives, or a therapist about how you are feeling and what support you need. You can also drop by the online consultation hour at any time to receive further tips and advice.
I wish you and your family strength and unity during this difficult time. You are already doing a lot for your parents and that is admirable. Stay strong and don't forget to take care of yourself.
Warm regards,
Gerd Herrmann
