What options do I have to prevent disputes among the heirs?
April 4, 2024 | 40,00 EUR | answered by Uwe Herrmann
Dear lawyer,
I am reaching out to you because I am currently in a difficult situation regarding the inheritance of my parents and urgently need advice. My parents passed away some time ago and did not leave a will. Now, my siblings and I are faced with the task of fairly dividing the inheritance among us. Unfortunately, there are already signs of disagreements and disputes between us, which is causing me a lot of stress and worry.
I would like to find out what options are available to avoid these disputes and find a fair solution. I am concerned that the family peace may be permanently disrupted and that we may lose each other. It is very important to me that we as a family stick together and find a solution that is acceptable to all parties involved.
Can you please show me what steps we as heirs can take to avoid conflicts and ensure a fair distribution of the inheritance? Are there possibly alternative ways, such as reaching an agreement through mediation or involving a neutral mediator? I am grateful for any advice that can help us come out stronger as a family from this difficult situation.
Thank you in advance for your support and professional advice.
Sincerely,
Siegfried Lauer
Dear Mr. Lauer,
Thank you for your inquiry regarding the inheritance of your parents and how to handle any disputes among the heirs. It is understandable that you are concerned in this situation and seeking a solution that preserves family peace and allows for a fair distribution of the inheritance.
First and foremost, it is important to know that in your case, the legal succession applies as there is no will from your parents. This means that the inheritance is generally divided equally among the children. If you and your siblings cannot agree on how to divide the inheritance, it may be beneficial to seek professional help.
One way to avoid conflicts and find a fair solution is through mediation. Mediation is a structured process in which a neutral third party, the mediator, facilitates communication between the parties in conflict and assists in finding a solution. The mediator helps identify the interests and needs of all parties involved and work together to find common solutions. This can often resolve conflicts and reach a mutually agreeable settlement.
Another possible way to avoid disputes is to involve a neutral mediator who acts as a mediator between the parties and can provide legal information if needed. A mediator can help improve communication, clarify misunderstandings, and defuse conflicts.
It is important that all parties are open to discussions and willing to compromise in order to reach an agreement. It may also be helpful to seek early legal advice from a specialized inheritance lawyer to be informed about the legal framework and to know your rights and claims.
Overall, it is advisable to establish clear communication early on, treat each other with respect, and work towards a solution that benefits all parties involved. With professional support and a constructive approach, it is possible to avoid conflicts and ensure a fair distribution of the inheritance.
I hope these suggestions help you find a solution to the inheritance dispute in your family. If you have any further questions or need legal assistance, I am here to help.
Best regards,
Uwe Herrmann
Lawyer specializing in inheritance law
