What options are available to achieve an amicable divorce?
May 4, 2022 | 30,00 EUR | answered by Johann König
Dear lawyer,
I am reaching out to you because I find myself in a difficult situation and urgently need advice. My name is Rolf Kroll and I am in the middle of a divorce process. My wife and I have decided to get a divorce because we have simply grown apart and do not see a future together anymore.
Currently, we agree on many points, such as the custody of our children. However, there are also some contentious issues, such as the division of assets or the arrangement of alimony. We would like to go through with the divorce amicably and as peacefully as possible, to avoid unnecessary conflict and burden for ourselves and our children.
Therefore, my question to you is: What options are there to achieve an amicable divorce? Are there specific procedures or mediation approaches that could help us find a fair and satisfactory solution for both sides? What steps do we need to take to make the divorce process as smooth as possible?
I am very concerned that our divorce will turn into a lengthy and costly dispute that will ultimately leave losers on both sides. Therefore, I would be very grateful if you could provide me with your professional assessment and recommendations on how we should proceed to achieve an amicable divorce.
Thank you in advance for your support and advice.
Sincerely,
Rolf Kroll
Dear Mr. Kroll,
Thank you for your message and your trust in my professional advice. I understand that you are in a difficult situation and seeking a peaceful solution for your divorce. An amicable divorce is usually the best solution for both parties, as it saves time, money, and emotional stress.
I am glad to hear that you and your wife are already in agreement on some issues, especially regarding the custody of your children. This is an important step towards an amicable divorce. It is advisable to seek a mutual solution in other contentious matters such as asset division and spousal support.
There are various ways to achieve an amicable divorce. One option is mediation, where a neutral mediator helps you and your wife find a fair and mutually acceptable solution. In mediation, conflicts are addressed constructively and common agreements are reached. This can help make the divorce process harmonious and improve communication between you and your wife.
Another approach is Collaborative Divorce, where both parties have their own lawyer but work together to avoid a court battle. This allows for a respectful and cooperative divorce where the needs and interests of both parties are considered.
To make the divorce process as smooth as possible, it is important to gather all relevant information and documents early on. This includes financial records, property and asset statements, as well as agreements on custody and child support. Open and honest communication with your wife is also crucial to avoid misunderstandings and resolve conflicts.
It is understandable that you are concerned your divorce could become a lengthy and costly dispute. However, with professional advice and support, you can steer the process and ensure that your interests and those of your children are protected.
I recommend that you promptly contact an experienced family law attorney to discuss your individual situation and develop a strategy for an amicable divorce. Your attorney will guide you through the entire divorce process and help you find a fair and satisfactory solution.
I am available for any further questions and personalized advice. Please do not hesitate to contact me to schedule a personal meeting.
Sincerely,
Johann König
