How can I achieve a mutual divorce?
November 13, 2022 | 50,00 EUR | answered by Oliver Breitwieser
Dear Family Law Attorney,
My name is Alwin Kroll and I am faced with the difficult decision of getting a divorce from my wife. We have mutually agreed that an amicable divorce is the best solution for us to peacefully end our marriage.
The situation is that we have grown apart in recent years and realized that we are no longer happy together. We have no children and no significant assets that need to be considered in the divorce.
However, we are currently at odds on some issues, such as the division of household items and shared debts. I am concerned that we may end up in a lengthy and costly divorce process if we cannot reach an amicable solution.
So my question to you is: How can we achieve an amicable divorce without conflict? Are there specific steps or negotiation options that we should consider to make the separation as harmonious as possible? I want to ensure that we are both treated fairly and that we can still interact respectfully after the divorce.
Thank you in advance for your support and advice.
Sincerely,
Alwin Kroll
Dear Mr. Kroll,
Thank you for your inquiry regarding an amicable divorce. It is understandable that you are seeking a peaceful end to your marriage and wish to avoid disputes. An amicable divorce is usually a good solution, as it is often quicker, more cost-effective, and less burdensome for all parties involved.
To achieve an amicable divorce, it is important that you and your wife communicate openly and are willing to compromise. A first step would be to discuss the division of household items and debts together. Try to remain fair and objective and seek solutions that satisfy both parties.
It may also be helpful to seek professional support from a mediator or a family law attorney. A mediator can help you resolve conflicts and find mutually acceptable solutions. An attorney can provide legal advice and ensure that your interests are protected.
It is important that you and your wife document all matters in writing to avoid misunderstandings and disputes in the future. A prenuptial agreement or a divorce settlement agreement can help you formalize all agreements and regulations.
Finally, it is advisable that you and your wife continue to treat each other with respect and maintain good communication even after the divorce. Especially when it comes to making joint decisions in the future, it is important that you are able to continue to communicate constructively.
I hope these tips help you achieve an amicable divorce and make the separation process as harmonious as possible. If you have any further questions or need professional support, I am at your disposal.
Best regards,
Oliver Breitwieser
Family Law Attorney
