How can I achieve an amicable divorce?
November 28, 2023 | 40,00 EUR | answered by Alexander Hartmann
Dear Divorce Lawyer,
My name is Sandra Tressel and I am facing the difficult decision of getting a divorce from my husband. Over the past few years, we have drifted apart and have come to the conclusion that separation is the best path for us. Since we do not have major disputes and both agree on a mutual separation, I am wondering how I can achieve an amicable divorce.
Our marriage has lasted for ten years and we do not have any children. We both agree that we want to process the divorce as quickly and smoothly as possible, in order to start fresh. However, I am unsure about the steps I need to take and how to ensure that all legal and financial aspects are taken into consideration.
My main concern is that the divorce is fair and just for both of us, and that we can continue to treat each other respectfully in the future. Therefore, it would be very helpful for me to learn about the options available to achieve an amicable divorce and how best to proceed in order to make this process as seamless as possible.
Thank you in advance for your assistance, and I look forward to your advice and tips on how to successfully navigate the divorce in mutual agreement.
Sincerely,
Sandra Tressel
Dear Mrs. Tressel,
Thank you for your inquiry regarding an amicable divorce. It is understandable that in this difficult phase you are looking for a quick and uncomplicated solution in order to start afresh.
An amicable divorce is generally a good way to expedite the divorce process and save costs, as it can help avoid disputes. In order to achieve an amicable divorce, you and your husband must agree on various aspects, such as the division of assets, arrangements for maintenance claims, and the division of any debts.
The first step you should take is to find an experienced divorce lawyer who can support you in this process. A good lawyer can help you consider all legal and financial aspects and ensure that your interests are properly represented. Your lawyer will also assist you in drafting a divorce agreement that outlines all the key points.
In addition to legal advice, it is advisable to consider mediation. In mediation, you and your husband meet with a neutral mediator to reach an agreement. The mediator will help you find constructive solutions and reach an agreement that both parties are satisfied with.
It is important to communicate openly and honestly with each other to avoid misunderstandings and facilitate a harmonious separation. Try to keep your emotions in check and focus on resolving the legal and financial issues.
In conclusion, I want to emphasize that while an amicable divorce may seem easier, it still requires professional support to ensure that all aspects are properly addressed. Do not hesitate to seek assistance from an experienced lawyer to guide you through this process.
I wish you success and all the best for your future.
Sincerely,
Alexander Hartmann
Divorce Lawyer
