What rights do I have as an unmarried father?
February 27, 2024 | 50,00 EUR | answered by Fred Busse
Dear Family Law Attorney,
I am reaching out to you as an unmarried father who is unsure of what rights I have in relation to my child. My ex-partner and I separated some time ago and share joint custody of our daughter. However, I feel that my ex-partner is withholding certain decisions from me and I am not adequately involved in important matters.
I am concerned that my rights as a father are not being sufficiently considered and that I may not be able to spend enough time with my child or have a say in important parenting issues. I also worry that my ex-partner may be making decisions concerning my child without my consent.
Therefore, I would like to know from you what rights I have as an unmarried father and how I can strengthen my position to ensure that my interests and those of my child are properly taken into account. Are there specific legal steps I can take to protect and defend my rights as a father? How can I ensure that I am included in important decisions and that my relationship with my child is not compromised?
I thank you in advance for your support and look forward to your professional advice on this matter.
Sincerely,
Artur Schlüter
Dear Mr. Schlüter,
Thank you for your inquiry regarding your rights as an unmarried father in relation to your shared child with your ex-partner. It is understandable that you are concerned and want to ensure that your rights as a father are appropriately recognized.
As an unmarried father, you have the right to access to your child as well as the right to be involved in important decisions regarding the child. The custody of the child is generally granted to both parents, even if they are not married. This means that as a father, you have the right to be involved in decisions regarding the upbringing, health, education, and other important matters of your child.
If you feel that certain decisions are being withheld from you or you are not adequately involved in important matters, it is advisable to first have a conversation with your ex-partner. Try to work towards a mutual solution and discuss how you can better collaborate in the future to safeguard the interests of your child.
If this is not possible or an agreement cannot be reached, you may also consider taking legal steps. You have the option to apply for joint custody at the Family Court or request the appointment of a legal representative who will represent your interests and those of your child in court.
To ensure that your relationship with your child is not compromised, it is important to maintain regular contact with your child and actively participate in their life. Show interest in the concerns and needs of your child and strive for good communication with your ex-partner to avoid conflicts and ensure the well-being of your child.
I hope this information helps you and answers your questions. If you need further assistance or legal advice, I am here to help.
Best regards,
Fred Busse
Family Law Attorney
