How can I best prepare myself for the divorce?
December 3, 2022 | 45,00 EUR | answered by Erwin Evers
Dear Attorney,
My name is Max Eberstark and I am on the verge of divorcing my wife. The relationship with my wife has deteriorated significantly in the last few years and we have decided to separate. However, I am concerned about the divorce process and would like to prepare as best as possible.
Currently, my wife and I still live together in our house, which we own together. We have two school-aged children for whom we need to find a solution. Additionally, we have joint accounts and assets that need to be divided.
I am worried about how the divorce will affect me financially and how the division of our shared property will be handled. I want to ensure that my rights are protected and that I am treated fairly.
Can you provide me with tips on how to best prepare for the divorce? Are there specific documents I should gather? What steps should I take next to make the divorce process as smooth as possible?
Thank you in advance for your help and support.
Sincerely,
Max Eberstark
Dear Mr. Eberstark,
Thank you for your inquiry and your trust in my expertise in the field of divorce law. It is understandable that you are concerned about the upcoming divorce process and want to prepare as best as possible. I am happy to assist you and will provide you with some tips on how to best prepare for the divorce.
First and foremost, it is important that you gather all relevant documents that may be important for the divorce. These may include marriage contracts, life insurance policies, loan agreements, bank statements, credit card statements, property and vehicle titles, as well as tax returns from the past few years. These documents are needed to assess your shared assets and any debts, and to ensure a fair division.
Furthermore, you should inform yourself about your rights and obligations in the context of a divorce. For example, you are entitled to a fair division of shared assets as well as maintenance payments, especially if you are responsible for the children. It is important that you are clear about your financial situation and seek professional support if necessary to best represent your interests.
Another important step is communication with your wife. Try to find an amicable solution and decide together how to divide the shared property. If this is not possible, you should consult an experienced lawyer who can guide you through the process and effectively defend your rights.
Additionally, I recommend that you inform yourself early on about custody arrangements for your children and, if necessary, reach an agreement with your wife on how to handle child care after the divorce. Also consider the financial security of the children and clarify who will be responsible for which expenses.
In conclusion, I want to emphasize that good preparation and professional support are crucial to ensuring a smooth divorce process and protecting your interests. Do not hesitate to contact me with any further questions or concerns. I am always available to assist you.
Best regards,
Erwin Evers
